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Not Good Being Alone

No one, in their right mind, wants to be alone. But love, as the Bible predicted, is truly waxing cold.

Of the "last days" Jesus said to his disciples, "And because iniquity (wickedness) shall abound (be plentiful), the love of many shall wax cold." (Matthew 24: 12)

People are so dead inside to other people. The reasons? People lie to, cheat on, play games with, steal from, are controlling of, gossip about, keep secrets (like being married), physically abuse, verbally degrade, and/or scam other people. And, yes, jealousy, envy, and a lack of trust are also among the reasons why natural love naturally grows cold.

No one knows anymore who they can really trust or depend on to be loyal. Seems that nobody really even knows where to look for love in this world anymore. It's like seaching for the proverbial "needle in a haystack."
Everywhere you go, everywhere you look, one disappointment after another.

There are only so many heartaches a person can stand. So they tend to just give up. Either that or they try a different race or the same sex that they are.

Many women (probably men, too) seem to be pimped out by that personals site's system to lure others to join or pay money to answer the messages, etc.

Bars and clubs? Who wants to take a drunk or a lush home or even to a motel? It all is a waste of your time and money. Plus you risk getting stopped by police, getting your vehicle impounded, and losing your license, "home," income, and your dignity.

It is so messed up in this world that some folks pay, however, for temporary companionship. People even purchase things toys and watch things to help them "cope."

Diseases are running rampant. Even some who self-proclaim that they are a "Christian" might lie to you about having one.

If this does not show you that Satan is wreaking great havoc in this world, he has REALLY blinded you!

Selfish, ignorant men and women give love a bad name, make it hard for people who really are sincere about finding someone special and truly loving that special someone.

Everyone thinks and feels that everybody else are just liars, have a secret agenda or only want one thing.

People have been lied on, incarcerated, physically hurt, and worse after meeting who they thought would not do them wrong.

There are so many elements as to why love between two people isn't as it should be, and Satan is the quarterback, the shot-caller calling all the different plays. So, if you, too, are on Satan's team, you WILL lose!

All this reminds me of a song about no one getting too much heaven anymore... Really isn't hard to see why.

People who have evil in their hearts entertain evil thought-desires. Those satanic influences, if you know what I mean. But guilt follows sooner or later. Satan's plan, of course.

Some people it seems believe that the devil made them do and/or say whatever they did and/or said. The truth is that's a lie, because we all have free will and control over it.

No doubt, the more you try to not give in to those urges, the stronger those urges become, because Satan is really trying to get you to do the wrong thing so that you will lose all heart from being guilt-ridden.

If we give in, satan tauntingly laughs at us afterwards, capitalizing on our guilt.

True that we all get those desires, those "constant cravings," as one song states. Yes, because our Creator made us that way, with those desires that every one of us want to cool off somehow.

Some of us even get angry at God, because we were made like this, constantly craving. But is it God's fault or ours that the people in this world act the way/s they do? Think about it!

It seems that all of us want what we want, are so damn picky. But, because we are, we oftentimes miss out, end up old, alone, and lonely.

(All that glitters on the outside isn't gold on the inside and all that looks valueless to us on the outside could prove to be worth more, in many ways than we first thought.)

Life can be great with the right mate. Remember, God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make a helper for him." (Genesis 2: 18) I believe that He meant that regarding a woman, too.

We ask ourselves, "Where is my helper, my soul-mate, bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh (in other words, heart of my heart and mind of my mind)?

That still, small voice inside you is telling you or showing you who that person is. God is calling you to him or her but He can't make you act on it, because you have free will to not act on or act on what He's trying to tell you.

Life is short. The Bible says, "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, THINK on these things." (Philippians 4: 8)

Oh, you can have faith in those things, because they are faith-inspiring but, remember what the Bible also said about having faith? "Even so, faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone." (James 2: 17)

There are "bad apples" out there that were corrupted by Satan but there are "good apples out there waiting to be "picked," too.

Love hasn't waxed completely cold in every heart. Those who have an eye will see the better ones.

Why not pick one and go for it? It might just turn much better than you thought.

About Me
Loves the Most High, a real friend till the end, an understanding shoulder, a solid confidante, non-judgmental compassionate, considerate, dependable, loyal, friendly, kindhearted, quiet type yet, likes meaningful conversations, adores children, songwriter, writer, poet, reflective, thoughtful, humorous, average looking, multi-talented.

Just looking for someone decent who doesn't play games, who wants a mature gentleman to do things with. I know that no one is perfect or completely good. We all have flaws, fall short of God's glory. We all make mistakes. I'm 59, don't have a racist bone in my body (I will never understand racist individuals).

I believe I am one of God's "chosen people" and have a calling to teach people the truth regarding things in the Bible. First and foremost I am seeking friends or a special friend (one is better than none). My skin color, ethnicity? Please, don't pre-judge me, because MANY of you have been SERIOUSLY ILL-INFORMED about the black race). Get to know me. I will do the same with you. It would be good to find a non-judgmental mate someday but maybe that will not happen until I in the "new world"-Paradise.

If you steal, lie, cheat, are money hungry, have "baggage" that you did not mention in your profile, have children who want no other man in your life but their biological father, or are a scammer, don't waste my time. I'm very perceptive. I don't play games. That's childish. If you can't be real, sincere, and honest up front, why are you even on a personals site? GROW UP! Life is too short for that idiotic non-sense!

All welcome to message. I will answer all asap. Don't be shy. We're all in this together. Disability, past, looks, etc., unimportant. Be yourself. Even chat pals are welcome. I'm open to all.

P.S. I have talk-videos, literature, and poetry on a facebook. If you'd like to check my page out, just type in awytnez in the search box. That will pull up all three (3) of my fb pages. Hey, nothing to hide. Enjoy. It's all free, all true, and all good.
First Date
If it happens to come to a first date, we can do what we both decide. One thing I will be sure to discuss with her is who God's "chosen people" really are, because it's NOT the white race.

I will explain to her how I certainly know, beyond any a shadow of a doubt, that they are the black race. In the book of Deuteronomy, God was referring to His "chosen people" whom He told that He would "vex with a foolish nation, not a people."

When He told US to not race mix, that was one of the reasons why, but I believe that , as long as the woman pleases Him, she is acceptable to Him and not considered a "dog." I only want a woman who is trying to please the Most High. I just pref

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BuildA few extra pounds
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Always wanted to tryHmmm...


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Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Wit, Thoughtfullness
Look for in a partnerI'll know her when I find her.
On the first datewhatever we both decide