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One of my favorite things is intelligent conversation. I am looking for a partner, best friend, confidante, a LTR,....someone who will always have my back, as I will have hers. I am seeking someone who keeps up with world affairs, but I have no patience for liberal activists who are angry all the time, but have no idea why.

I am a deep thinking person and I love to have meaningful conversations. I like to talk about spirituality and what is our status on the path to enlightenment. Being a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Energy Healing Practioner, I have had remarkable insights into the human psyche and the powers of the mind. I've learned that magic can be real and that miracles do happen.

I also love to watch and talk about the choreography of sunsets, the magic velvetiness (is that a word?) of rose petals and the soft scent of a woman. I am just nuts about South Park and never missed an episode of Star Trek when I was a kid. I have had an eclectic life. Lots of good stuff....and lots of bad stuff. I've been very, very rich and very, very poor. I've been very, very healthy....and I've been very, very sick.

When you are my friend....or significant other, I would take a bullet for you. I am seeking a partner with whom I can be her best friend, a good listener, and will always have her back. When two people have mutual respect and keep the communication going in a completely honest and sincere way, they always win.

I have started writing a book that tells about my journey in this world and how I became a healer will be a big part of it. I had a Transverse Myelitis attack 17 years ago. It's a bit like MS. One day I woke up and was paralyzed from the waist down. I was told I would never walk again. I could not lift my foot 1/4" off the bed. With a damaged spinal cord, things got really weird. The signals coming out of the spinal cord got mixed up. In the early years, clothing felt like sandpaper, my feet would feel like they were immersed in a basin of ice cubes, while my upper legs would feel as if they were on fire. I would sit and I would not know if my feet were touching the floor. Sometimes my feet would feel as if they were floating. These weird sensations are called parasthesias. They are gone now.

Before a forced early retirement at 57, I worked with people who suffered from PTSD, Panic & Anxiety Disorder, Depression, Self Esteem issues and more, using a combination of ancient far Eastern Healing and modern Western Science. I ran 5 miles 3 or 4 mornings a week at dawn. My shoes had wings as I ran, watched the sunrise and pumped out endorphins. But that part if my life ended at the young age of 57. So, I use a cane (sometimes a walker) rest when I need to and follow my dreams. I am considered disabled but I am independent. If you are seeking a companion for mountain climbing, skiing, sky diving, ballroom dancing, kayaking or running a marathon, I'm not your guy. My legs get weak sometimes and I constantly look for pain relief. Sometimes fatigue sets in for no reason. Rest is needed. That said, however, I am great company, a great listener, conversationalist and still seeking ways to get stronger physically. If you are not able to understand this, we would not work. But since this is a Disabled site, that shouldn't be a problem. However, if my personality and current physical condition are not for you, thanks for reading this, but you should move on. Even though I have some physical limitations, I believe a caring companion will help me get stronger. And I can do the same for you. Further, I am loyal, monogamous, trustworthy, have integrity and will be the kind of friend (or more) that you may have never had the opportunity to be with. I have a lot to offer and always put other's needs before my own.

In June, 2018, I had a Spinal Cord Stimulator surgically implanted. It's kinda like a pace maker, but it never helped. In fact, I believe it made my situation worse and I will be having it removed soon. I really believe once this device is removed, I will be doing much better. It's complicated and if we meet, I will be happy to explain it all to you.

Back to PTSD and my passion for a cure.....Even though all you hear and read about says that there is no cure for PTSD, that's what Big Pharma wants us to believe. That angers me because PTSD can be cured in 86% of cases . It's complex, but magical and extremely rewarding. I still want to work with Veterans afflicted with PTSD. When their nightmares and cold sweats are gone....and their thoughts of suicide are gone....my heart is full. That's the kind of reward that really matters.

I did very well for many years, but about two years ago, symptoms started coming back. It was pretty bad. My legs were weak and rubbery. Extreme fatigue returned and my quality of life went to crap again. I'm still involved with some testing, but things have turned around and I''m feeling much better. I exercise almost daily using Physical Therapy techniques to re-connect neurons and muscle tissue. Thank God, it's working. I currently walk with a cane, experience pain and other issues, but I really try not to let this define me. I just want you to know that, for now, I do have some physical issues that would limit some activity, but I can take care of myself; I'm a pretty good cook and I enjoy life. I'm told that I am a very interesting person and I keep up with what's going on in the world.

Please don't tell me that you are a liberal/progressive activist. I am very concerned about our maddening political situation and I believe that all of our problems can be solved with common sense. If you believe that the world will end in 10 years due to climate change or that we should become a Socialist nation, you and I will not be able to get past that. It would be an automatic deal breaker. If you use common sense and are middle of the road in this political climate, or better yet, lean right toward conservatism or libertarianism, that's a big bonus toward us finding one another. If you hate Donald Trump, we are not a match. He will go down in history as a truly great President.

Additionally, I don't mind your disability. Lots of people have Disabilities and often this makes for a valuable, life long relationship.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildFit
Height165 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Health ConditionDisabled
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsNone
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusRetired
Job TitleHolistic Clinical Therapist

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies
Favorite TV showsSouth Park, Star Trek, News, History channels
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation, Thriller, Adult
Favorite moviesSomewhere in Time, Fiddler on the Roof, Superman
Music typesCountry, Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age, Dance, Soul, Folk
Favorite artistsFrank Sinatra, Tony Bennett, Barbra Streisand, Louis Armstrong, Ella Fitzgerald
Reading selectionAncient, Business, Fiction, Health, History, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Science, Science fiction
Favorite booksThe Count of Monte Cristo, Current Politics, Energy Psychology
Idea of funI love the sun and the beach. Having a drink at a Tiki Bar with music. Deep thought and conversation, Spending time with my significant other.
HobbiesExercising, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering, Computers

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asCool
In High School I was a(n)Cool dude
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, TV, Going to a concert
Always wanted to trySo many activities that I'm physically unable to do now, like sky diving, camping, driving the country in an RV

Views

Political viewsConservative
ReligionJewish
Goal in lifeAs stated in my profile, I want to establish a tax exempt corporation and treat Veterans afflicted with PTSD and other combat problems at no charge to them. That would make my heart sing.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerSomeone who will make my heart flutter when I see her...kindness, empathy, understanding, intelligence, a positive attitude, who will love it when I bring her flowers for no reason, a problem solver, loyalty, monogamy, integrity and honesty.